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Goodbye letter to your love
October 16, 2018 Anniversary Wishes 2 comments

Goodbye Letter (from a girl to a guy) Needless to say, writing this letter was heart breaking. I won't hesitate to say that I am still hanging on to our love.

I don’t know when I started to lose you, or how it happened. All I feel is your absenceand the related stir of emotions.

Maybe it’s not that I’ve lost you, but that my feelings have changed for reasons that I’m still trying to understand and decipher…not even I can understand how fire can turn to ice in a matter of moments.

You know what I’m saying? When you lose or disconnect from someone, you feel an unbearable void within yourself. This happened to me with you…

I’m left with so much to do, so much to say to you…but it’s when I have you in front of me that I get a lump in my throat and the words don’t come. I have failed you. I haven’t been able to keep my promise of joining my life with yours so that we could make the journey together.

The truth is that I do not regret anything we’ve done so far. Nothing that was done, said, or felt. I’ve had special moments with you, I’ve felt extraordinary things, and we’ve done things that can’t be repeated.

No one has loved me more kindly or sincerely than you. No one else has ever taught me that love is built just as much as it is found, and that the important thing is to surrender to it, to give into the facts and flow with them. Or that opportunities only come when we look for them.

I’d like to thank you for staying by my side, for everything you’ve taught me, and for everything that we’ve learned and discovered together.

Because of one thing I’m sure: that you’ve made me a better person. Thanks to you, I started to find myself and connect with myself in new ways. And that has immeasurable value.

The things I never told you are the ones that I can’t say with words. The feelings, love, affection, and nostalgiathat are felt from deep within myself.

I’ll remember you and tell you what I never told you, but what you probably knew and respected.

There hasn’t been a day when I haven’t been grateful for meeting you. Because even though now we’re not the same, you’re the most important person that I’ve ever known, the most sincere and authentic. I can see it in your eyes.

You and I, we walked secret paths, and others more traveled, but we walked with and for our emotions. We learned that love is more than a feeling, that it can become something inexplicable. It can be felt as an internal explosion and it can help you discover the essence of the person that knows how to look you in the eye and talk to you without saying anything.

We spoke the same language for a long time, until I started to not understand it anymore. For that, I’m sorry.

But I also want to tell you to continue being who you are, from your head to your toes, keep loving with the simplicity and purity that is so characteristic of you. I want to tell you that I’ll be here, I promise, as long as you and my emotions will let me. I would never dream of forgetting you. You are a part of me. Of my story, my life, and my person.

There’s a piece of you in me, and I suppose there’s a little piece of me in you, too.

Maybe we don’t walk the same path anymore, but everything between us was so healthy and genuine, so honest and kind, that you’ll always be important in my life. My turning point.

And although this is a goodbye letter, I don’t consider it such, because I don’t want it to be. I think saying goodbye to you would be impossible. You’ll always be there, here, a part of me in many ways, because when someone comes into your life, in spite of everything, it’s impossible to erase them.

Impossible to erase how much love you have given me. Impossible to erase how much love is written in this letter.

Goodbye Letter (from a girl to a guy) Needless to say, writing this letter was heart breaking. I won't hesitate to say that I am still hanging on to our love.

Not a Love Letter

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How To Say Goodbye to Someone You Still Love Deeply

Saying goodbye to someone you love is the hardest thing to do. However, when circumstances force you to shift far away or breakup, you will have no choice but to say goodbye to that person. The people we love in our lives have the capacity to change our lives forever. There are those we love only for them to end up breaking our hearts; there are those we love and our lives become much better. Being in love with someone is something we cannot avoid in life. You dream, hope, and plan for your future together. We all know we have no control over how things end up. Therefore, when things do not work out with the person you love, you need to let go and move on with your life no matter how hard it might be. Here are ways you can make your goodbyes a lot easier with the person you still love.

1. Take Your Time

People say that time is the best healer. There are wounds that heal with time; you forget and move on. There are wounds that become blurry in your memory. There are wounds that do not heal no matter how hard you try. Given time, the wound still hurts as if it is a fresh wound. Such wounds will only heal if you are gone too. Therefore, when you want to say goodbye to the love of your life, you need to give yourself time to heal. You will meet new people, have new life perspectives, and things will change with time. This is not a guarantee you will forget your past, but you will get used to the pain and you will learn to manage it. Time will help you accept the reality of your situation and you will be able to face the world.

2. Meet New People

Having a chance to meet new people will give you an opportunity to feel better and forget what is making you sad. You will be able to get your old self back. Meeting new people is a way to give you a chance to be in love again. However, while this does not mean you can love the same way, a little attention and affection will help you feel much better. People become irrational when they are hurt. They go out of their way to get involved in a new relationship within a week. Such a relationship does not work out. Therefore, you should tread slowly and take your time to know the other person well. This will make the relationship last longer.

3. Be Sure To Know Why You Have To Say Goodbye

When you have parted ways with the love of your life, it is easy to go down memory lane and relive all the details about your past together. You will wonder why you let your forever person go in the first place. You will miss the person and try to reach out. This will be a bad idea. Such things that will make you go down memory lane are love letters, love poems or even silly love quotes. Ensure you discard them all. Seeing them can bring mixed emotions that you should avoid. To control yourself you have to think of the bad memories too to retain a balance. This will remind you why you had to say goodbye to the love of your life in the first place.

4. Focus on Staying Apart From Each Other

It is normal for a person to want to get back together with the person they still love from time to time. However, you should remind yourself why you said goodbye in the first place. This will help you to stay focused on your decision. Controlling your emotions can be hard, especially if you have ample opportunities to get back together. You must stay focused, and keep reminding yourself why this is the best decision you made. If you lose focus, you will do something you might regret later. Do not doubt yourself.

5. Have the Ideal Person in Mind

For you to have a future spouse, you have to know what qualities you want your next love to have. Being aware of the qualities you want will help you find the right person. However, we all know nobody is perfect. Therefore, do not expect the suitable person to be perfect for you. In order for you to make the right decision, you can draft a list of the qualities you desire your next person to have. Compare the qualities of your ex-lover and the ideal person and see the difference. You never know, your expectations may be met.

6. Find a True Love

If you keep on believing that you lost your true love, chances might be you will never find love again. You have to say goodbye to your old memories and try to live in the present. Give yourself a chance to find true love again. In order to forget your lost love, you will have to develop pure feelings for someone else. The old memories will diminish with time and you will no longer crave the last person again. Finding a true love will help you move on. This is a great opportunity for you to find happiness again.

7. Forgive and Forget

We all have heard the saying forgive and forget. This is possible only if you are willing to let go of the hurt feelings. The only way you can move on with your life is by forgiving someone you still love, especially if he or she wronged you. The first step to say goodbye to someone you still love deeply is learning to forgive. Then you will be able to forget the person and move on. Most people who have lost the love of their lives tend to delay forgiving. They usually think ignoring them will solve everything. This is not usually the case. Once you forgive the person, you will forget the sad experience and you will be able to say goodbye with no hard feelings.

8. Discard All Evidence

You can convince yourself that you have moved on with your life, yet deep down you know you are still hurting. The hardest stage of recovery is getting rid of all the mementoes you have of your past love. If there are any letters, poems, quotes, images, gifts, and messages, get rid of them all. This may feel impossible, especially if you know how much that someone meant to you. You will feel like you are deleting his or her memory. Therefore, you will need support and strength from your loved ones. However, if you are determined to say goodbye to your lost love, you have no other choice but to discard all evidence. You can ask a close friend to help you delete all messages, burn all the love letters, quotes and love poems and to discard all the pictures and gifts on your behalf. The longer you hold onto to them, the longer you will live in the past.

9. Do Not Get Emotional

Whenever you come across something that reminds you of your past life with your ex, do not indulge in the memory. Such reminders can be cologne you have smelled, a small gesture from someone you have seen, among other small things. Immediately replace such thoughts with facts about your new life. It can be your new job, an accomplishment, or a project you are working on. Avoid wallowing in self-pity. It will only make your life miserable.

10. Be Your Old Self Again

Being in love can change a person and your perspective on life. Love has the power to destroy the logic of being selfish. A person becomes selfless and you dedicate your life to your love. However, when you break up, the realization will hit you hard. You will notice you have changed- especially how you viewed life. In this situation, you have to try to find your old self again. This is a great opportunity to be your own person again.

11. Write a Farewell Letter

When you to say goodbye to someone you still love, farewell letters can be helpful. You can write it in form of poems, quotes, letters, or notes. It does not matter if the person you still love will read it or not. The point is that you want to make it clear to yourself that this part of your life is over. In the letters or the poems, you can write how you feel, what made you angry, what brought all this, and what made you love the person in the first place. Some people feel that it is appropriate to say goodbye to someone you still love by expressing your feelings from your heart. If you are that kind of a person, writing a goodbye poem is the best way to move on. It is never easy to say goodbye to a person you still love face to face. Writing it all down will help you get it all out.

12. Focus on Changing Your Life

The shared life with your ex-love cannot be changed and you cannot rewind time. Therefore, if you want to say goodbye to your old life, you need to focus on changing things. This can be done if you manage to separate things that can be amended from those that cannot, such as the way you view life, a complete makeover on yourself, where you live, etc. This will help you to move on with your life.

13. Approach Life Positively

When you still love someone you cannot be with, life can feel impossible. You need to take things positively even if it is hard. You need to focus on your inner strength and principles to make it work for you. Approaching life in a positive way will make things work out for the better. Given time, you will forget your sad feelings and you will see life in a new perspective. It takes a strong-willed person to pull through. Having to say goodbye to someone you still love is a sign of maturity. This process makes you stronger as a person, and you will be able to learn from the experience. People grow when they learn from their mistakes. Therefore, approach life one step at a time and live positively. Being hurt is not the end of the world; you need to keep on living.

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A Goodbye Letter To My First True Love

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It frustrates me that this is the only way I can convey my thoughts to you- not knowing if you will ever see this, but I had to give it one last shot. Chances are, if you are reading this, you are here for the same reason I am, and I can say “mission accomplished”. I have the slightest bit of lingering hope that something will lead you to this site, your eyes to these words, and your mind back to what we used to be.

I’m not angry at you for leaving me. I’m not angry at him because he has you and I don’t. I’m here to say that the person you fell in love with is the same person sitting here typing this message to you right now.  I admit, I had some struggles with an addiction I was fighting at the time, but, thankfully, I’ve fought through that, and I’ve been sober for over a year now.  Alcohol makes one say and do irrational things – especially when the heart is broken.  I wish I had been given the chance to explain some things to you, though.  Unfortunately, I believe some “friends” misinformed you on things.  They even got in my phone and sent you some things that were hurtful, and it was embarrassing on my part.  I would have never said those things to you. I did some stupid things, but I did not say those hurtful things. Whatever.  That’s not why I’m here anyways.

I just want you to think back for a second to the way you felt that night I first kissed you. Remember laying in the grass by the water?  I remember thinking life could not possibly become any better for me than it was in that very moment.  I remember the moon lighting your face and creating the most beautiful sparkle in your eyes.  I remember the way your hand felt in mine and how it lightly trembled because you were nervous.  It didn’t last but for a few minutes, but I want you to know I would go through the pain of you breaking my heart all over again just feel what I felt in those few minutes.

Although it seemed, at times, as if we were rock solid and nothing could divide us, we were fragile. Every “I love you”, “I’m so happy with you”, “I’m in love with you” seemed to be another brick to the wall between us and the world. Little did I know, you would be the one to tear it down. It’s okay, though.   We had our time, our moment in time where we shined, and I would not take anything in the world for it. For whatever reason, you saw it best for me not to be a part of your future.  I couldn’t have given you the world, my love, but, I swear I would have made you feel like the only person in it.  Our time came to an end long before my love did, but I want you to know that I am eternally grateful to you for giving me the best time of my life.

So, I guess this is my last goodbye. I’ll be moving on. I will never forget the way you made my heart feel for the short time you loved me. I lived – while you loved me. I have to do what’s best for me now. I have to focus on making the best out of what life has given me.  I have to let you go.  Wow – that was the hardest line to type.  Goodbye, beautiful.  Don’t forget about me.  If God decided to take me from this world, please know in your heart that you were loved with everything in my being.  I wish you all the happiness life can offer.

I love you always,

– Me

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To ————– (receiver’s email)

Dear Sena,

This is certainly the hardest thing for me, but I have to say it because that is what destiny has left for us, Goodbye! I had never thought I would be writing this to you. I cannot mention the reason to this goodbye though I know I am liable to tell you but believe me saying goodbye to you is the hardest thing in life.

The times that we spent together were the best times in my life, and you will always have a unique place in my life, forever. I know this isn’t easy, but believe me; it is not simple for me too. You have taught me a lot and thank you for accepting for my flaws and being by my side always. Your love has made me strong, and that is what will keep me going through the tough times. I have become a better person because of you and will value all your advice.

I wish you all the very best in life. You have all the positive qualities that will serve you the best in the future. I am taking with me all the memories spent together. I hope you get the strength to move on in life.

Goodbye, my favourite person!



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This isn't a love letter because you don't love me, and I'm a coward to leave a I can't write you a love letter, I just need to write you goodbye.

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