Spending my life by your side as your girlfriend, partner, wife has been the I really and truly appreciate and love you for all this and more.
This ‘love letters for her’ comes from a guy who was a bit troubled in the past, but now that he has found his one true love, he no longer gets in trouble – he has found his shelter from the storm.
Dear (insert name here),
Although, sometimes I question things, deep down, I understand that you really are the only one for me. When I’m not with you, I am thinking of you in one way, shape or form. Just looking at you, I know that you and I can be together forever without any problems.
You know, it’s funny, because when you’re next to me, it feels as if time stops – only you can make me feel like time stops. When it feels like the end of the road for me, only you can light up my path. Only you can be the one to chase away all of my fears. For all of this, I am grateful and hope that you will remain by my side until the end of time.
When I speak the words “I love you,” I’m not just saying it to say it. I say it, because I mean it. These are the three words in one phrase that I will always stay true to. I couldn’t imagine living with you, because really, life without you wouldn’t be a life at all.
I believe it is you that has given me a life. I mean, who was I in the past? Looking back, I don’t see how I ever survived without you – you truly are my princess. You truly are my shelter from the big storm and I thank you for this.
Every time I look at us together, a sense of pride flows through my veins. When we first got together, neither one of us were sure where we were headed. Now, here we are, years later and I see exactly where it is I want to be. Even when everyone was saying we wouldn’t last, we didn’t let that bother us. Instead, we stood up and proved each and every single one of them wrong. I always knew the both of us just needed love in this life and had no doubts that we would make it through. Thank you for just being you and showing me the light when I needed it. I love you with all of my heart and soul and will always love you – don’t ever forget these words, because I will always remain true to you.
Always and forever, your love – (insert name here)
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When I first met you I had no idea that you would end up meaning this much to me. I also had no idea that you would change my life and myself for the better. The best part about all of this is that I didn’t plan on meeting you, but we found each other. Even when I met you, I never imagined that you would teach me so much. But boy am I glad that I met you because now I can't imagine my life without you! There are so many things I would like to thank you for, considering you have done so many amazing things for me so, here are a few:
From the second I met you I knew that there was something different about you, you weren’t like everyone else, you were different. Well, that is because you are simply you, and there is no one quite like you. You are the smartest, funniest, and kindest person I have ever met. You inspire me every day to be the best person I can be by simply setting a great example. So let me start by thanking you for just being you.
You always let me be my crazy, silly, funny, weird self. You never make me feel uncomfortable about being myself; you actually encourage me to be myself. Thank you for letting me be me.
Sometimes the things that you come up with or the stuff that comes out of your mouth is so silly that I can't help but laugh hysterically at you. You’re basically a 5 year old in an adult body, well sometimes. But you also know how to be professional and mature at the same time too. Thank you for being fun.
You always let me choose where to go to dinner or what we want to eat and that's the best because well... food is the best of all, besides you of course. But besides food whenever I’m bored you always agree with my silly, spontaneous ideas and are down for any adventure. Thank you for being my partner in crime, you rock.
... Especially homework. Whenever I don't understand something you're the first person to offer a helping hand. You're so smart you have no idea. You can understand anything and figure something out without giving it barely any thought. I totally admire that about you! Thank you for being so smart, I am so proud of you.
Whenever something is bothering me you know before I even know, and you know exactly how to handle it. You always have the right things to say exactly when I need to hear it. You always know how to make me feel better and I love you for that. Thank you for being my shoulder to cry on.
When I tell you about something that happened you're not afraid to tell me I’m wrong. And sometimes I definitely need to hear that. You wouldn't be helping me if you just constantly sided with me, and told me I am right even when I’m not. You truly make me a better me. So, thank you.
We have so many plans for the future that we made together and I cannot wait to achieve our dreams together! I am so excited for our plans! I also have no doubt in my mind that we won't be able to achieve these dreams. I cannot wait for our future together.
You’re there for me. You are always there for me. When I’m upset you’re the first person I think of to call. When something amazing or happy happens to me you’re the first person I tell it to. When something bad happens you’re the first person to offer a shoulder to cry on. You’re not only my boyfriend, but you’re my best friend, so thank you.
You understand me, better than I understand myself. You know what’s right for me even before I know what I should do about it. You know what I’m going to want for dinner before I even know what I want for dinner. It sounds silly, but that’s just an example. And the worst part is you always end up being right, which is very hard to admit. Thank you for always guiding me in the right direction and having patience with me.
Even when I look horrible, or when I’m sick with a gross cold you still make me feel beautiful. I mean, I know I definitely don’t look great while blowing my nose, but you tell me I am anyways. You always make me feel like a princess no matter what. Thank you for making me love myself.
You do so much for me… clearly, but this has to be the one that I am most grateful for. You love me endlessly no matter what. You have taken the time to get to know my family, my whole life, basically everything about me. The best part is that you love everything thing about me. So thank you for showing me what true love is.
After writing and reading all of this I’ve realized all over again that you're so much more than just my boyfriend. Besides being my boyfriend you have become my best friend, my role model, my #1 fan, my forever date, my shoulder to cry on, my cuddle buddy, and best of all my partner in crime. No matter what happens you have taught me so much about life and myself in general, so finally, thank you.
I remember the feeling I had when we first met 15 years ago. It is difficult to describe in words because in some ways there are no words for what we felt. It was an instant knowing of each other and of something much grander than either of us. It felt like time stood still… in fact, that there was no time.
We knew each other and the love between us even before we opened our mouths to speak.
Since that moment I have never tired of looking into your eyes because the depth and quality I see is priceless, endless, timeless and deeply inspiring.
We have always seen each other for who we are, willing to look beyond all the layers we have placed on top. And we have felt the power of this love between us. This is something that has sustained us, healed us and grown even deeper, richer and stronger as the years have gone by.
I know I love and understand you more now because I love myself and understand myself more deeply than I did when we met.
I have always sensed something special, something beyond this world, in your eyes, your walk, your voice, your movements, the sway of your hips, your touch…. You constantly remind me that we are so much more than human beings. That there is a divine quality or essence that is very beautiful and inside all of us. I feel more of the real me simply by being with you.
Since I was a child I always had a knowing of the deep respect, integrity, decency and true equality that was possible in relationships. Our relationship has already surpassed even my wildest imaginations and expectations. And I can sense that this is just the beginning.
You are so, so beautiful, graceful, joyful and sexy that it ignites my heart and fires up my being.
You live with so much integrity, honour, warmth and dedication to truth that you inspire me every day.
You are the rock of our family – a solid, consistent presence in the house that steadies me and our children whenever we wobble or lose our way. I know you have always got my back.
You share so much wisdom that you have always been a tremendous counsel and support to me and many others in understanding life.
I deeply appreciate the blessing of having you in my life, and having this golden opportunity to walk beside you in this life hand in hand. I can truly feel how unstoppable we are together when we are together – a true power couple.
Sometimes the way we live together seems so normal and natural that I don’t fully appreciate what we have already. So I write this love letter to you today to claim what we already live now and who we are and what we bring together.
I constantly marvel at how we came together and the way that we complement each other so well in terms of our strengths and weaknesses and how we reflect constantly to each other exactly what is needed for us both to evolve equally. The precision, detail and delicateness of this is truly incredible.
I deeply appreciate the commitment and dedication we have both said yes to so far in our relationship and the foundation of love we have already built together. It has been a beautiful unfolding of a very beautiful flower. There is no perfection and more of our potential to develop, but I can sense that we are on the verge of something even greater. I can sense the purpose in building the love between us to bring more of this love to the world. There is so much to celebrate!
We are eleven years married this year and yet it feels like we are beginning all over again.
I want to re-commit to myself, to you, to us, to love and to the rawness, vulnerability, intimacy, honesty and openness that is so beautiful in all loving relationships. I want to deepen and expand the beauty, the intimacy, the tenderness, the power, between us even more.
I am beginning to understand that our relationship is about far more than us, it is about all relationships everywhere and that we have a beautiful responsibility to continue to evolve our relationship for the sake of all relationships everywhere. And there is so much joy, laughter, fun and love we can be and have along the way.
With love, care and deep appreciation for all that you are and all that you bring to this world.
Published with permission of my wife.
By Andrew Mooney, BPthy (Hons) MCSP, Physiotherapist, Complementary Health Practitioner, Cornwall, UK
Peeling Back the Layers of Appreciation
Relationships are always about evolving – the key to making relationships work.
An Aussie by birth but living and loving in Cornwall UK. Enjoying a very full life with my wife, children and Henry the dog as a Physiotherapist, complementary health practitioner, writer, presenter, musician and researcher. I am constantly curious about how the human body, people and life itself works. Love walking, talking, singing, sunshine and being by the sea.
Read 26 - To my partner, thank you for loving me at my worst from the story It takes a lot of persistence to get through my tough exterior, and I love you more for you as my husband, and I'm really happy that you chose me to be your wife. +.
You are a good man. No, a great one. You are the man of my dreams. Not just that, you are the man who has slain the dragons in my nightmares. You have exceeded my dreams, brought to life a man my dreams didn’t know existed. You are a man who speaks truth. Not just truth that everyone wants to hear; you speak the truth everyone needs to hear. It’s refreshing. You are a good man.
When you saw me struggle with loneliness and depression, you gave me time away. When you hear me utter a silly desire, you find a way to fulfill it. When you see me tired and weary, you give me time to rest. When the kids have drained all my energy, you order pizza on your way home from work. You clean up our never-ending messy house on your day off. You are a selfless man.
You give me kisses in the morning, kisses at night, and many in-between. You snuggle our babies and wrestle our boys. You rub my feet and tickle my back every night when I ask. You wipe away tears and snotty faces, and hold me when I fall apart. You are a loving man.
You lead our family in truth. You show our boys what a man does, and what a man doesn’t do. You don’t falter in your steps. You seek wise counsel and know you need others to guide you. You steady me when I question who I am. You live with integrity and purpose. You are a strong man.
I hope you feel loved for all you are. In the moments I say nasty things and my tone is hurtful, I hope you still know the depth of my love for you. That my heart breaks knowing I’ve hurt the one my soul loves.
For loving me when I’m in a dark place, but never allowing me to stay there. Thank you for asking me tough questions. For showing me truth when I need it, grace when I don’t deserve it, and discernment when I am too confused to understand.
To know they are secure in your love is a gift. Knowing they will always understand the love of a father will have eternal rewards. For them to see you loving people and serving the Lord will guide them the rest of their lives. I’m certain that they will trust Him more easily since they’ve had a father that has cared for them so well.
When we promised forever so long ago, I thought that was the best moment of my life. Now I realize the best moments are the little moments with you everyday. When you pause as you leave the house, catching my eye for a special glance just for me. When the kids go to bed and we collapse on the couch, knowing we are a team. When you bring me a flower, even though I acted like I didn’t want one. When you fulfill your marriage vows and tell me I’m beautiful every day. Those are the best moments of my life. And they just keep getting better.
You really are a good man–no, a great one.
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