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Learn some great love letter tips and ideas to get you started. But if you're more of a funny person, don't be afraid to add a little humor or.

When you genuinely care about someone, it’s hard to hide your emotions.

It becomes imperative to express your feelings and let him know how you feel.

Instead of keeping your love all bottled up, express it as soon as you can.

Assuming that your boyfriend or husband knows all about your feelings is not a clever thing to do.

Remember that it’s always lovely to hear the words spoken loudly.

If you are apprehensive that your words might be taken for granted, then fear not.

Because these romantic love letters for him below will help you express exactly what you’re feeling inside.

Steal them and make your love story a perfect one.

What Will I Learn?

Long Distance Letters

Letter 1

To My Beloved,

It’s not easy being so many miles away from you, but I kind of get inspired from this long distance love because I expect something or the other from it every day.

I keep counting every minute and second until I get the opportunity to wrap my arms around you again and fall asleep in your arms.

I want to feel your breath on my shoulders and hear your laugh.

You can’t imagine how much I want you at this present moment.

I can’t wait to feel your touch.

I love you, but this pain of missing you that I am going through is absolutely worth it.

You are the only one who is worthy of my love and I could wait a lifetime for the most wonderful person on this planet.

I hope you are in the pink of your health and absolutely hale and hearty.

Till the time we meet, cheerio.

Letter 2

My Dearest,

Not getting you close to me is slowly driving me crazy.

I simply can’t wait for the moment when we are together forever.

Those eight hours that we are away for work seem heavy for me.

I keep imagining you beside me and feeling your touch on my tender skin. I am dying to hear your voice teasing me and your fingers running across my hair.

Many a time, I turn around and expect to see you right beside me.

I get utterly disappointed when I don’t get to see you and I can’t describe the pain I go through when reality hits me.

I haven’t imagined a day without you and it’s only me who knows how is it like staying away from you.

I have often thought why can’t I live all by myself.

But the moment I have thought of spending a day without you, everything will go topsy-turvy.

All my plans for my future are absolutely incomplete without you.

My heart beats for you baby and I would die if you are not with me.

Promise me, that you would never leave me, come what may.

Staying far away from you is not possible anymore.

Please come back soon.

Miss you.

Reconciliation Letters

Letter 1


I know you are furious with me and this letter might be the last thing you would want to read at this present moment.

The argument that we had last night was totally uncalled for and I realized this morning that how much I love you.

You know why?

Because I know I can trust you blindly and can easily get through this like every time.

We are a strong team and all these upheavals can never break the strong bond that we share.

We do know how to compromise, don’t we?

Even in the times that we get pissed off with each other, we have always stayed respectful towards each other.

This is the thing that I love about us.

Every couple fights and we are not exceptional.

Having said that, we know how to handle them with full maturity.

People say that wives are the better halves of their husbands.

However, I have always been of the opinion that you are my better half.

The way you have been by my side through thick and thin, I doubt anybody would.

Please forgive me if I have hurt you in any way. I never intended to and I hope I never would.

Love you.

Letter 2


I’m really sorry that I have hurt you.

You don’t know what I am feeling right now.

You know baby, I never wanted to be the reason a single tear runs down that hunky face.

Believe me, I never wanted to be the reason why you would become upset.

I get hurt every time I hurt you.

I cry when you cry.

No matter how hard we fight, I feel like running back to your arms every time.

You are my solace, honey. You are the person for whom my life has a new meaning, a new identity.

I really don’t know if you need this apology or not, but I wouldn’t be able to forgive myself if you don’t forgive me.

As far as I know, you are not a person who holds grudges. You never were. I hate it when I hurt you, even for a moment, even for a second.

I shouldn’t have been so hard-hearted to someone who has floored me with his kindness.

With all my heart, I love you!

I always have.

And I promise you that I will take this as a learning experience.

Waiting to hug you.

Letter 3

Hey Sweetie,

I don’t know if I should be telling you this now, but I seriously can’t get you off my mind.

Maybe this is not a good idea, but I badly want to get back to you.

My friends have often advised me to set things right, but something has been stopping from reaching out to you.

Maybe it’s my ego, But, the fact of the matter is, I have realized that I can’t live without you.

After we broke up, there hasn’t been a single moment I haven’t thought about you.

Trust me, I haven’t deleted a single part of our memories, be it your texts, or the pictures we clicked together.

I am not aware of whether you have done it.

I very well know that we have had our own problems, but I have a strong belief that we can sort out everything together.

In my heart, I do wish to run into your arms one more time.

Miss you dear.

Letter 4


If you ask me it was really painful to break up with you.

I never wanted it to happen. After we have separated, there has been a huge void in my life.

I wanted to spend my whole life with you, get married, have kids, and die in your arms.

Unfortunately, there has been a hiccup, which neither of us has been able to deal with.

I always wanted to cook meals for you and give you all the happiness in the world. I had so many plans for the future.

However, our love story has ended so abruptly, that I am at a loss for words and can’t think about anything else.

Can you help me work out our future out once more?

I have a strong feeling that you and I are made for each other and our story hasn’t officially ended.

Mark my words.

Missing Him Letters

Letter 1


It has only been a while that we had last met.

But I don’t know why it seems like years I have last seen you.

Your touch, your breath, those eyes staring at me, that smile across your lips, make me go weak in the knees and I can’t express how I miss them every time you leave.

I know I am being a bit too selfish in asking you to stick to me each and every moment, but sweetheart, the fact is I can’t away from you for much longer.

Maybe you would understand, maybe you wouldn’t and maybe my way of expressing my love for you wouldn’t get across to you, but I hope one day you would realize that my love for you is true and eternal.

Nothing, and I mean nothing can come between us.

Wish, you were here to listen to what I have to say.

The next time when we meet, I am not going to shy away from showering all my love on you dear.

Miss you so much.

Letter 2

My love,

It has been only been a day that I have shifted to a new city.

These 24 hours that I have not seen you have started taking a toll on me badly.

The pain from being away from you is so painful dear.

I always had such great times with you that I couldn’t imagine how it would be like to stay away from you.

If a day seems so heavy, how would I spend the rest six months?

It’s frightening me already.

The very thought of it is driving me mad.

I wish you could be here with you so that I could see and feel you every time I wanted to.

But that too seems to be a distant reality.

The moment I try to imagine a second without you, I feel terrified, to be honest.

I can’t wait to get back to you, but my professional commitments are proving to be the major hurdle.

I wish there wouldn’t be any gap between you and me.

I promise to finish my work as soon as possible and jump back into your arms.

I can’t wait.

Miss me.

Anniversary Letters

Letter 1

My love,

It’s hard to believe that one more year has passed by.

It seems like it’s just tomorrow we met.

You are a gift from God who has graced my life with all the love. It feels like I have known you for ages.

With your arrival in my life, everything has been so meaningless, because you are the one who has mattered to me the most.

You have been the guiding light and I would be lost if I don’t have you.

I want to thank you for everything you have done for me.

Thanks to you, I have matured as a woman.

However, I still depend on you for many things. I am incomplete without you, darling.

Please don’t ever leave me.

Happy Anniversary Sweetheart.

Love you to the moon and back.

Letter 2

To The Love Of My Life,

I believe we are the cutest couple and I love us.

No sweetie, I am not boasting.

I mean it.

We are indeed the perfect couple and it has been another year that we have enjoyed marital bliss.

We do understand each other and listen to each other every time we have a difference in opinion because of the mutual respect that we have for each other.

You are my inspiration and my role model.

I have always looked up to you for everything and the way you deal with all the ups and downs of life is something I have derived my inspiration from.

You have never shied away from facing the adversities of life and that itself has impressed me to the core.

Negative situations come and go, but you have been a rock, weathering all kinds of storms single-handedly.

A brand new year is about to start, but this seems to be just the beginning of a long road that we have planned to travel together, however tough and rocky it would be.

I love you sweetie, and I know you love me more.

Happy Anniversary My Lifeline.

Thank You Letter


I never thought of writing a letter to you.

But, all of a sudden, it seemed necessary as I was missing you like hell.

In an age of texts, Facebook chats, and WhatsApp, writing a letter seems to be something completely out of place.

However, I thought it would be a sweet gesture on my part and I really feel you would love it.

Well, this is actually a thank you note.


Because I wanted to thank you for everything you have done for me.

Thank you for washing my dishes, thank you for making my bed, thank you for staying beside me when I am sick,

Thanks for those hugs and kisses you have gifted me, thanks so much for squeezing all the sadness and disappointments out of my life, thank you for each and everything.

No, it’s not an obligation.

I know you do everything because you love me.

You have instilled a whole lot of confidence in me when I have felt down and out.

Most of all, I want to thank you for being there for me.

I never thought I would come across a person like you who would know me more than I do.

Having said that, a big thank you for being my best friend.

Can never stop loving you.

Casual Love Letter

I can’t wait until your birthday to confess what you mean to me.

Actually, you are everything I always wanted from God.

I know I don’t often say this.

You know how guarded I am about my feelings and I am very well aware of much you hate this habit of mine.

But, I did feel like opening my heart and pour all my feelings for you in this letter.

I hope you know how much I love you and how much I care about you.

I never imagined that I can have so much love for someone.

I know there are days when we argue a lot, quarrel, and even don’t see eye-to-eye.

But, trust me, you are the only person on this planet, I can shower my love and anger on at the same time.

Dude, you are my best pal and I guess I have the right to be mad at you.

The next time we stand in front of each other, I assure you I would make up for everything.

Last, but not least, thank you for everything. Be there for me just like you have been till now.

I wouldn’t disappoint you for sure.

You can trust me blindly on that.

Confidence-boosting Letters

Letter 1

My boo,

Did I tell you before that you are the most good-looking and attractive man I have ever met in my life?

Yes, honey, it’s the truth.

I thank God because you are mine.

I couldn’t have a more precious gift.

You make me laugh as no one does.

You are awesome in bed and I don’t think can be better than you.

Do you know what’s the best part I love about you?

Your compassion and warmth towards others.

These are the qualities that are rarely seen in men nowadays.

You are not perfect, of course not.

In fact, nobody is.

But your flaws are your charm and that’s why you look all the more alluring to me.

There is no point in being perfect.

It’s boring and mundane. Your imperfection has given me utter joy.

I wouldn’t ever want to change a single thing about you.


The way you look at me is enough to melt my heart and the way you smile at me sets my adrenaline rushing.

If I have to tell you truly, I have butterflies in my stomach the moment you touch me.

Ohh, baby, you can never know how you make me go crazy. To me, you are the best.

You always will be.

Letter 2


I know how upset you are regarding that promotion.

I know how badly you expected a hike. But, things don’t always go according to our wish.

Our expectations don’t always have a fruitful result irrespective of how badly we want it.

Disappointments are a part and parcel of life.

It doesn’t mean that you would stop working towards success.

Remember, it doesn’t matter how slowly you go as long as you don’t stop. You have to work harder.

I am always there for you no matter what. If the whole world stops believing in you, I never will.

I know that one day or the other, you will achieve what has always desired and deserved.

You have all the potential to be at the top and one day, you would.

Don’t lose confidence in yourself because that’s the biggest weapon you have.

It’s always up to you how you would want to shape your life.

Rest, leave it to the almighty.

He will set everything straight.

In The Mood Letter

Hi Hottie,

I am going to make this night hotter for you.

Come back soon from work because something out of the world is waiting for you.

I won’t divulge the details in this letter.

It’s a surprise.

Keep thinking about it the whole day.

Tonight, I will show you heaven.

I really want to gift you an experience of a lifetime.

So, make your way home as early as possible as something exciting is waiting for you, baby.

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In conclusion…

These are some of the best love letters for him from the heart.

You can take suggestions from here as well as note them down.

These romantic love letters would allow you to get mushy and can prove to be indispensable in alluring him.

So what are you waiting for?

Start penning down your thoughts and feelings as soon as possible because your loved one is eagerly waiting.

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The Most Romantic Love Letters For Him (Because Texts Are Not Enough)

a love letter to the man i love

Few things leave a person feeling warmer and more in touch with their partner than receiving a love letter.

What goes into a love letter is important. It must be honest, sincere, unguarded, and allow the light of day to show your soul, because that’s what they fell in love with in the first place.

But how do you go about writing a love letter? One that will strike the right chord and leave your girlfriend, boyfriend, or partner weeping with happiness.

Let’s explore this in more detail.

1. How To Start A Love Letter

Many of us aren’t used to writing letters, much less love letters. It’s a communicative exercise far different from a text, instant message, emoji string, or extended chat session.

Love letters require more patience with ourselves than we’re generally told is worthwhile.

Starting one needn’t be difficult. A good way is to talk about when you first met.

“Dear X, When I met you I…”

You can keep this factual: “…was working two jobs and felt the weight of the world on my shoulders.”

Actual: “It was dark and raining and you silently leaned your umbrella over both of us at that dirty bus stop.”

Poetic: “…was flesh and hard bone; now I am spirit, never alone.”

Flowery: “…knew, for the first time, that angels were real, because either you were one or one had guided me to you.”

Then the letter must expand your personal universe. You must bring them, your love, into the equation.

“You entered my life and eased my burdens.”

“You became my best friend and the person I know I can turn to for love and moral support.”

“You showed me the joys of a deep and lasting love that I never thought possible.”

“You… [insert honest words of meaning from your heart]”

Or, you could begin your letter with a short explanation of why you are writing it.

“We’re about to be apart for a whole week, and I’m sure it’ll feel like an eternity, so I wanted to write you a letter to tell you just how much you mean to me.”

“As we embark on this trip of a lifetime, I felt like now would be a good time to remind you of how much I care for and appreciate you. So here goes…”

“This letter is just my way of showing you what an amazing person you are.”

Next, reflect on how love is a journey. Where has it taken the two of you? Where is it taking you next? Write about this.

“These past X years have been the best of my life and I can’t wait to see where life takes us next.”

“We’ve been on some epic adventures together and you’ve pushed me to become a better person. I hope I’ve done the same for you.”

“The times we’ve shared, the travels we’ve been on, the experiences we’ve had – I couldn’t have asked for more. If the future brings us even half as much as the past has, I’ll be a very happy and content person.”

“What a journey we’ve been on. From those first dates to making a home together, to having our wonderful children; I’ve loved every second of it. I’m sure the path ahead of us will be equally as joyous and rewarding.

Get as specific as you can. Mention the paddle boarding you did in Australia, that time you put the flat-pack wardrobe together backwards and had to start from scratch, the moment your first child was born, the skinny dipping you did at a nearby lake at sunset.

The journey you’ve been on is intensely personal, so make your love letter reflect this. Recall stories from the past and speak about your dreams for the future.

Don’t worry about rambling on; if it means something to you, it will mean something to them.

2. Turn Your Attention Toward The Recipient

Once you’ve found your flow, your next words should be those that show just how much you appreciate and value them as a person.

You might focus on how your beloved not only changes you, but the world around them too:

“I have never known a more generous, giving person.”

“The way you bring people together in peace and harmony is a true gift.”

“The care and attention you pay to all of nature’s creatures is simply beautiful.”

You might write about what makes them so unique and special to you:

“You fascinate me every single day, from talking about UFOs to knowing which plants in wild fields are medicinal.”

“Your passion for crafingt is a joy to behold and I love your creativity and determination to make each piece as good as it can be.”

“When you play the piano, it’s like I can feel what your heart is feeling.”

You can acknowledge the journeys they have been on or are still on:

“I have never seen anybody honestly try to teach themselves quantum physics, and even though I’ve no clue what 90% of what you’re saying means, I hope you never ever stop explaining these fascinations to me.”

“Watching you pour your heart and soul into your business has been incredible. Through those tough early years to the challenges you face now, I stand in awe at how you’ve made it such a success.”

“From the moment you first decided to train for a marathon, I knew you’d put your all into it. And now you’re about to tackle marathon number five which is an incredible feat. I’ll always cheer you on and be waiting for you at the finish line.”

(Note: ‘though these examples focus on romantic love, all of them work for familial or platonic love as well. Unless and until one gets to the inclusion of saucy bits.)

You can and should speak of things other than love.

Personal things.

Talk about how they make you laugh. Or how nobody but them has ever gotten you to try, let alone appreciate, brussels sprouts.

Speak of your admiration for them or their ability to bring the best out of you and everyone they touch.

You’ll know best what you value most in the person you love, but if the ideas don’t come straight away, try to brainstorm a list of all the things – big and small – that matter.

If time is on your side, keep adding to this list as and when you notice or remember something about them that makes your heart melt a little. Then, when you do come to write your love letter, you’ll have plenty of material to work with.

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3. Bring It Back To You

Now that you’ve spent a little time putting them in the limelight, you can bring the focus back to you, but specifically on how they have made you into a better person.

Talk about the ways they have helped you grow:

“I know I could be a bit of a closed book when we first met, but you’ve shown me how beautiful it can be to share more of myself and be vulnerable. I truly thank you for that.

“I was a bit of an anxious mess when you showed up in my life, but with your help and support, I’m now much calmer and more confident. That’s all down to how you believed in me and taught me to believe in myself. I can’t ever thank you enough.”

“When I faced challenges and obstacles in my life, you kept encouraging me to overcome them. You told me to stand tall and do my best to get through the hard times, and I did… because I knew you were there beside me the entire time.”

You’ve probably changed in many ways since you first met your beloved, so think about how they have played a role in those positive changes.

By telling them how they have improved you and your life, it shows them that you really appreciate their presence in it.

4. Ending The Letter

To finish off your letter, return to the feelings you have for the recipient and make it clear that these feelings are as strong as ever.

Thank them again and reiterate that you are looking forward to whatever the future may bring.

Though it’s not necessary, a P.S. after you’ve signed off with your name can be a good place to add something funny or mushy to top things off and get their tears flowing.

Something like…

“P.S. you can always have the last spoonful of ice cream from the tub.”

“P.S. I’ll bring you a cup of coffee in the morning until we’re both old and wrinkly.”

“P.S. you still owe me for the huge bite you took of my burger on our first date! :)”

Going Beyond A Love Letter

Perhaps you’re feeling creative, or maybe this is not your first love letter and you want to do something a bit special. Your letter doesn’t have to be a letter. It can be a poem. It can be a story. A vignette. A song if you’re musically inclined.

You could do a visual collage about milestones and turning points in your relationship growth; create a candle full of symbolism and meaning for the two of you; record observations during a solitary walk where the unseen but felt presence of your loved one remained beside you the entire way.

Whatever you do at this point, realize that the output is likely to be so unique, potent, and private between the communal you, that ugly-crying may ensue. On both your parts.

What A Love Letter Needs To Communicate

By now you realize a good love letter is not a laundry list of someone’s glowing qualities. It is an intimate detailing of who you are under the influence of another person’s life.

It can be as brief and surprising as “I need you” written on a napkin and slid to their side of the table after they’ve excused themselves to a restaurant’s bathroom, or as long as two Sundays strung end to end waiting for them to return from a trip away.

Whatever the length or form, it should contain YOU laid so bare as to turn the paper itself into a sensual artifact.

Remember, sometimes it is not what you say or how you say it, it’s that you said it at all.

So think of a loved one.

Think of the way you smile at random, passing thoughts of that time during church service they made you laugh.

Think of how your day – no matter if it’s going splendidly perfectly – gets immeasurably better the moment they’re home.

Consider their expression when they’re contemplative; be blessed in how protected and loved you feel.

If you can fill yourself near to bursting with all this, dear beloveds, you can write a love letter that will have them crying happy tears.

You don’t need to have a way with words. You just need to know that you love someone for who they are, and write.

Because if you ever get to a point in your life where you’re compelled to capture the sentiment “I love you, have loved you since the stars caught fire, will love you when we’re sweeping their coals aside” – you, my friend, are in a good place indeed.

An Example Love Letter

To my one and only Penny,

We’re about to move in together and I’m so excited. I wanted to share that excitement with you and so I wrote you this letter.

The night we met really did seem to be written in the stars. I was meant to be somewhere else and you had planned on a night in until your friend persuaded you otherwise. On any other night, we wouldn’t have bumped into each other.

But bump into each other we did. And though it was over a year ago, I still remember the moment my eyes met yours as you and your friends sat down at the table next to mine.

A lot has happened since that fateful night and it’s been a whirlwind of fun and excitement. I don’t think I’ve ever smiled and laughed as much as when I’m with you. You showed me just what life can be when you have a true partner in crime to spend it with.

If this next adventure of ours is anywhere near as good, we’ve got a lot to look forward to. And I truly do look forward to getting to know you even better than I do now.

There are so many things about you that make my heart glow. Too many to put into words really. I love your optimistic outlook on life and the energy you bring to each new day. I love your determination to see things through even if it’s not always easy. I love the way you want to learn new things and push your boundaries.

Even in the short space of time I’ve known you, I’ve seen you do some amazing things. You took on the challenge of moving to a completely different field of work because it was something you felt passionately about. And you made it look effortless, even though I know how much you had to put into it.

But that’s just who you are… a hard working, strong-willed, positive human being who looks at life as an opportunity not to be squandered.

And this way of living has rubbed off on me too. Your sheer presence in my life and the enthusiasm you show for the things I tell you has made me more motivated to follow my dreams and tackle the obstacles that stand in my way.

I would not be the person I am today had I never met you and I have to thank you for that. You even got me to appreciate the magic of the Broadway musicals, despite my initial reservations. When are we going to see Les Mis again? Seriously!

So as we get our hands on the keys to our new place, I want you to know that you’ve got the key to my heart. Sheesh, that sounds cheesy, but it’s true. I really do love you and I can’t wait to see what the future brings.

Your love,


P.S. I call dibs on at least 50% of the wardrobe…ok, 40%…let’s be realistic and make that 25% shall we? 😉

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How to Start a Love Letter

a love letter to the man i love

Send these love letters to him, because you can never tell your person how you feel often enough.

Do not keep your feelings inside. When you care about someone, you should let them know. Express your love instead of keeping it bottled up inside, because even if you assume your person already knows how you feel, it’s always nice to hear the words spoken aloud.

If you are afraid of the words coming out wrong, then you should steal one of these love letters for him. No matter what the occasion, there is a letter that will fit your love story perfectly.

Send these letters on your anniversary…

Love of my life,

I cannot believe another year has passed. It feels like we just met yesterday, but at the same time it feels like I have known you all my life. You make time meaningless. In fact, you make everythingelse feel meaningless because the only thing that matters is you. You have brought so much light into my life. I would be lost without your torch. Thank you for everything you have done for me — and thank you for helping me grow into the woman I have become.

To my forever person,

I love us. We’re the cutest. I know that sounds braggy, but I mean it when I say that I think we make the perfect couple. We understand each other. We listen to each other. We inspire each other to become stronger with each passing day. Happy anniversary. I cannot wait to spend another year alongside you, because there is no place I would rather be. You’re stuck with me. You better remember that!

Send these letters just because

My dearest (does that sound too corny?)

I wanted to write you a love letter, but it’s going to sound more like a thank you note. Maybe it’s both. I want to thank you for washing the dishes when I forget my dirty ones are still in the sink. I want to thank you for agreeing to watch shitty reality shows with me and letting me pick the songs during car rides even though we have completely different tastes. I want to thank you for all of the hugs you have offered me to squeeze the sadness out and all of the pep talks you have given me when I doubted myself. Most of all, I want to thank you for existing. Thank you for being my partner. Thank you for being my best friend in the world.


I don’t want to wait until your birthday or our anniversary to remind you how much you mean to me. Hint: You mean everything. I know I don’t always say how I’m feeling because I have a nasty habit of keeping my heart guarded, but I hope you realize how much I care about you. I never thought it was possible to have this much love for someone, I never thought my heart could handle it. I know there are days when we argue and don’t see eye-to-eye, but you are the only person I would want to have those arguments with. (Besides, the make up sex isn’t half bad).

Send these letters when you are in the mood…

Hot stuff,

You. Me. Our bedroom. Ten o’clock and not a second later. Be there and wear those sexy boxers that make your ass look delicious. Don’t worry, I’ll be wearing something you like as well… Can’t wait to undress you. XOXO


Even after all of this time, I still get butterflies when you smile at me. I still feel light as air when you press your lips against me. Just thinking about you on top of me, trailing kisses across my chest and stomach and thighs, is making me want you. Badly. I hope we can fix that tonight. What do you say?

Send these letters on his birthday…

My handsome man,

I am going to make this the best birthday you have ever had. It’s going to be filled with high-calorie desserts and way-too-expensive alcohol (and sex, so much sex). I cannot wait to make you the happiest man in the world because you have already made me the happiest woman. Now look up from this letter and kiss me!


This is my favorite day of the year. Do you know why? Because I could not imagine my world without you inside of it. I am so thankful I met you and I am thankful to your parents for creating such an intelligent, respectful, compassionate man. I hope this day is extra special. You deserve it.

Send these letters when you want to get back together…


Maybe I shouldn’t be telling you this, maybe this is the worst idea I have ever had, but I cannot get you off of my mind. My friends keep pushing me to get over you, but the thing is that I don’t want to get over you. I don’t want to erase your texts from my phone or your pictures from my camera roll. (No, I still haven’t done those things. Have you?) I know we had our problems, but I believe we can work through them if we both put in the effort. I am willing to do that. I am willing to fight for you. I hope you are willing to do the same.


I never wanted to break up with you. I wanted to move in together, get married, and live happily ever after. I wanted to cook breakfast with you in the mornings and fall asleep on your lap in the evenings. I wanted to see what you looked like with grey hair and see what our kids looked like with your eyes. I had so much more planned for us and I feel like our love story ended prematurely. But maybe we can still do those things. Maybe our story hasn’t officially ended yet.

Send these letters when you’re dating long distance…

To my everything,

I hate being apart from you, but our long distance love gives me something to look forward to each and every day. I keep counting down the moments until I get to feel your arms wrapped around me again, until I get to fall asleep to the sound of your soft breathing, until I get to hear your laugh the second it leaves your lips instead of through the delay of the phone. I love you and I miss you — but the pain of not seeing you is worth it. You are worth it. I would wait a lifetime for you.

My dearest,

Not seeing you has been slowly driving me insane. I cannot wait until the day when we live together. When we will only have to separate for eight hours at a time while we are both away at work. I keep picturing you here, beside me. I keep feeling the phantom touch of your fingers slipping across my skin. I keep hearing the ghost of your voice, teasing me. Sometimes I turn and expect to see you right beside me and am disappointed when reality hits me. I hate being so far away from you. Please visit soon.

Send these letters after you have had a fight…


This letter might be the last thing you want to read right now since we just had an argument, but I thought it was the perfect time to say how much I love you. Why? Because I know we are going to get through this. We always do. We are a strong team. We know how to compromise. We know how to remain respectful to each other, even when we are pissed the fuck off. I love that about us. After all, every couple fights, but not every couple handles it as maturely as we do.


I’m sorry for hurting you. I never want to be the reason why a single tear falls down that handsome face. I never meant to make you upset. I know you do not even need this apology because you have already forgiven me. You were never the type to hold grudges. But I felt like I needed to say something because I hate that I upset you, even for a moment. I should not have been so cruel to someone so kind. I love you and because I love you, I promise I will grow from this experience.

Send these letters when you have been too busy to text…

My one and only,

We have both been insanely busy lately. We haven’t had much time to sit down and eat together or go on date nights or even climb beneath the covers for some late-night fun. It feels like we only see each other for a brief time each week, but the funny thing is that I don’t feel like we have grown apart at all. I feel like it doesn’t matter whether we spend time apart because our feelings are never going to change. I am never going to love you less. I am never going to want anybody else. I hope you know that. I’m in this for the long haul, honey.

To my soulmate,

I love you. I love you. I love you. I can never say those three words enough and unfortunately I feel like you haven’t heard them at all lately. I’m sorry about that. I’ve been so overwhelmed with work that I haven’t had the time to give you much attention, but that will change soon. You know why? Because I love you. I love you. I love you.

Send these letters when you want to boost his confidence…

My boo,

I haven’t said this in a while but you are the most attractive man I have ever known. I cannot believe you are mine. You make me laugh harder than anyone else. You make me orgasm harder than anyone else. You aren’t perfect, not even close (hah), but you are certainly perfect for me. I wouldn’t change a single thing about you. Not a hair on your head.

Darling dearest,

I tell you how much I love you all the time, but I never really explain why I feel that way, so I’m going to do that now. I love the way your voice sounds when you say my name. I love the way your smile tilts when you’re trying not to laugh. I love the way your kisses feel against my neck. I love the way your voice sounds, even if you hate it. I love the man you were when I met you and I love the man I can see you growing into. I love every version of you. I love every messy piece.

Send these letters when you are feeling silly…

Hey you!

Sometimes you suck. Sometimes you make me want to bang my head against the wall. Sometimes you are so frustrating that I can’t even wrap my head around it. But all of those times I still love you. I will love you every day of my life. I will love you when you’re in a rough mood. I will love you when you are sick and whiny. I will love you even when you are being a pain in my ass because I know you do the same with me.

Cutie pie,

You are lucky you’re cute because you drive me insane. Even when you forget to put your folded laundry into their drawers or leave the kitty litter dirty for days at a time (sound familiar?), I still want to throw you against the wall and have my way with you. Is that weird? Or does that just mean I’m madly in love? Maybe it’s both.

Send these letters when you have been together for a long time…

My partner in crime,

We have been together for such a long time because we make sense together. We bring out the best in each other. After all of these years, we are still as happy as we were in the beginning. In fact, I might even be happier. I think that’s something we should be proud about. I think that’s something to cherish.

To my best friend in the world,

We have been through so much together. You have seen me with mascara running across my face. You have seen me with snot running from my nose. You have seen me screaming out my lungs and laughing until my stomach hurts. I have never been this vulnerable with anyone else. I have never allowed my true self to be seen by any other eyes. You know me better than any family members or friends do. Actually that is inaccurate because you are my family. You are the most important piece of my family.

There's more to winning a man's heart than writing only love letters.

Excerpts From Famous Love Letters

a love letter to the man i love

Prepare to have your heart melt.

Love letters are not a thing of the past. In fact, a lot of people end up writing them to people they care about. Among my guy friends, love letters are one of their favorite things to get from the ladies because they can hold onto them and read them over and over again. 

Writing a good love letter, though, isn’t always easy. Even writers like me need some inspiration from time to time. As a result, I decided to ask men what the best lines from the love letters they’ve gotten were. Check out what their exes had to say.

1. “Even though you don’t see yourself this way, I see you as a hero. You saved me from myself.”

This man says that this was from his ex who he helped overcome a heroin addiction. Yeah, that’s pretty heroic.

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2. “I really like your butt.”

Well, it’s short and sweet. 

3. “If only you knew how much I love you. I really wish you’d see the way I see you.”

According to him, he suffers from low self-esteem. His ex wrote this to try to help him gain confidence. 

4. “You’re an incredible lover and can make me orgasm like no one else can.”

This is pretty self-explanatory. 

5. “Bro, I love you.”

Also pretty explanatory. I mean, who doesn’t like being told that they are loved by someone that they are dating? 

6. “I don’t know if we’ll end up together. I can never tell what the future will hold. However, I do know that you’ll always have a piece of my heart. You’re that important to me.”

This man explained that this letter was given to him months before a breakup. He said it actually helped him get over her in a gentle way. 

7. “Even though I’m taller than you, I look up to you.”

This dude is short. This made him feel tall, I guess. Either way, he always reads this when he wants to feel great despite the relationship being done. 

8. “We can create something together. We can create a world where we are okay. We may not have money, but we’re still rich when we have each other.”

He just lost his job when his ex gave him this. It made him cry upon reading it. He said, “That’s when I knew she’d always be in my court.”

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9. “That night when you first picked me up at the bar changed my life. I’m different now, because of you.”

Most guys want to hear that they are a game-changer for a girl. This is a great example of it. 

10. “I know that things might not be perfect right now, but having you in my life means the world to me.”

This man said that the ex who wrote this died of cancer shortly after. He says it still means the world to him that she felt that strongly about him. 

11. “I really didn’t know whether I should buy you flowers or not. I didn’t know if you’d feel like a wuss over it. But, like, pretend this letter is flowers if you wanted them.”

I’m not sure what I’m more puzzled by with this one: the fact that she wrote “like,” or the fact that this is the best line he’s gotten in a letter from an ex. Poor guy. 

12. “I really can’t do this. Sorry.”

According to him, the only letter he’s gotten is a breakup letter. However, he was happy to have her out of his life, which is why this is the best line in it. 

13. “Your ex was a fool.”

He was still getting over his ex when his crush sent him this. They’re now dating!

RELATED: 10 Love Quotes That People Need To Stop Posting On FB, Stat

Ossiana Tepfenhart is a Jack-of-all-trades writer based out of Red Bank, New Jersey. When she's not writing, she's drinking red wine and chilling with some cool cats. You can follow her @bluntandwitty on Twitter.

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“If falling in love is anything like learning how to spell, I don't want to do it. It takes too long.” — Glenn, age 7. This quote was in an Elephant Journal article titled.

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